One change at a time

As I sit here at 5:34 in the morning writing this blog I actually feel nervous. nervous about what to say, how to say it, and how much to say.

Here’s the thing… I’m a living breathing embodiment of what I want to share. We all are examples of the message we teach. By doing things differently and getting over my own blocks and “limitations” I can better help someone else because I have actually ‘Walked THROUGH the Fire’.

I mean who really wants to walk through the fire at someone else’s say so when that person has only sat on the mountain top watching other people go through it.

You don’t know what you don’t know. And if no one is talking about it you can’t teach someone something you haven’t experienced.

So one change at a time. Here I am.

So Last week I attended Fabienne Fredrickson’s (of* and 3 day Monetize Your Message Workshop. Let me just say it was AH-Mazing!!! I met some amazing people and got some amazing content. I also got lit up. My fire had been burning but not directed. And I know this may sound a little out there but there is this Vortex that she creates and after being in the vortex for so many days it’s hard to come home and do the same old same old.

I enjoyed a relaxing weekend with my family and then decided I have to do something different. And so, I did :)

Now, I am going through  a change now as we speak but I am going to talk about the change that had to happen for me to go to that event.

Remember this: How You Do Anything Is How You Do Everything 😉 (that’s something else I got from Fabienne) I had registered for the event in February after stepping out of my comfort zone and driving 6.5 hours to Atlanta, Ga from Brandon, Fl. For those of you who drive frequently or do a lot of road trips this probably isn’t a lot of driving. For me, on the other hand, this was a trip across the world. I am normally driving to a store or my mother’s house and back home. I may be in my car 30 minutes consecutively. Six and a half hours are an eternity in my world. But I decide that the content is probably a little deeper and for the offered investment at the time I couldn’t refuse. After all I was ONLY 6.5 hours away (crazy how my excuse and reason are the same lol)

So I took the trip and say ‘Yes!’ to myself. Now, a few months later I’m wanting to upgrade to get the best experience possible because I’m a Taurus and I love Luxury so of course I want to show up 100% that’s how I like it. I have to figure out how to make that happen while debating on if I should even go because I’m making excuses about showing up for three days… ALONE…. without my husband or babies. Which really means 4.5 days because of driving up there and driving back.

Long story short- I got SO out of my comfort zone. I left the babies home with their Daddy (my husband- referred to as Dwayne from here on out) for a few days and took some time out for me and all the people that need me to personally develop more as a person and as a business owner.

Here’s the lesson: Change is constant. It’s really one of the only constants in this world. So we would do well to adjust well to change and to change well ourselves. When we take it one change at a time we can overcome some of the other things we want to do but need to change to experience. Allow yourself to experience just getting to that first stone as you cross the river of life, don’t worry about getting across the whole river. Do it one step at a time because you will change along the way and the parts that seem scary will not be as scary when you get to them because of what you had to go through to get there.

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